It’s the week before Christmas and all through the house, the family was packing for a vacation down south! I call my husband & say “we are going to take a vacation to Paintsville, Kentucky the weekend before Christmas! I’ve got it all planned and taken care of.” -This is typical Shelbie behavior…I tend to do and not ask. My husband and I have been together for 10 years now. He has adapted and learned to say “okay”, go with…